Family Travel Tips

By May 1st 2019 , on the first day of our family vacation, I found out that my husband had a mistress. She was his married coworker, M.When I looked in his phone to confirm what I believed was an affair going on I also found out these FACTS:She was tracking our location and activities from 4300 km away.She wanted him to shop for lingerie for her while on his vacation with his family.She was actively doing the planning of an EATSLEEPCYCLE trip to Girona and/or Mallorca Spain.Do you think affairs start by both people hoping they can destroy each other’s marriage? Probably not.The American Psychological Association (APA) reports that anywhere from 20% to 40% of divorces are linked to infidelity, and men tend to cheat more often than women do.50% of married people who have cheated on their spouse are still in the marriage. Based on statistics, men who have engaged in infidelity are more likely to remain married than women who have been unfaithful. Men are more apt to be angry and unforgiving of their spouse’s infidelity. 90% of men who have cheated will not choose their Affair Partner! 90% !! They don’t want the affair discovered (and will try to get out of the affair) or once discovered…they choose to remain in the marriage and work on the post-affair damage.One-on-one or couple’s therapy is expensive and psychologically painful for both The Unfaithful and The Betrayed.#salmonarm #salmonarmbc #shuswap #exploreshuswap #cycletraining #cycletouring #betrayal #betrayaltrauma #gaslighting #gaslightingawareness #affair #adultery #cheating #infidelity #affairsareabuse